Recently I've been put in an awkward situation. As a girl I play LittleBigPlanet online with has confessed to me that she likes me. I don't know of this is a big deal or not, but for more me it is. Since I have absolutely no expierience with girls, never dated, never kissed, hold hands, or even admit feelings for girls I had chrushes on.So it's pretty weird for me when a girl just says that she likes me. I kind of rejected her, as I wasn't really sure what to do, seeing as how there was an age difference (i'm almost 15, she's 11) and I really didn't spend that much time with her(but my little brother plays the game alot and she's on around the time he plays, so...yeah...). She seemed pretty upset about, after rejection my charadter was then smacked with a mallot, then she decided to make a little wall around herself, and later took me to a date themed level while constantly writing "HAHA" while there, and last telling me to go away and leave her alone. I'm really confused and nervous about it, so can someone please give me some advice. And Hugh, hut, and co. please don't derail this topic as I really do need some help.

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Well, I'd say talk to her and tell her that you didn't really mean it to reject her.Then go with her in her date level (if you like her that is).Also is there a reason why she said she likes you?Like were you flirting with her or something like that?

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Don't pay attention. Keep being the same person with her and that's all. If she wants a revenge don't give her motives to be able to. You are tooooooooooooo young to start worrying about that things. Life will give you what you need, don't rush.

11 years old and she already have those feelings... with that age I was playing with my G.I. Joes and the girls with their Barbies. How things change.

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Don't do it.

Close thread.

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She's too young dude.

Just let it go...

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Oh, I remember when I was eleven. I was obsessed with collecting teddy bears and enjoyed eating chocolate on my swing set. I didn't care much for the world around me, much less boys at that point.
But still, if you still want to hang around with her, try to stay indifferent. If you stay indifferent, she'll eventually realize you're not interesting and give up.

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Relations is one thing. Online relations are another.

I have one question to ask before I tell you what I think, have you met her before in person?

11 year olds tend to be extremely flighty. It's easy for them to get into something so they tend to flutter around from one thing to the next. They only stay interested in something until something else comes along.

Girls start going through puberty before guys, so add this child behavior pattern on top of a budding interest in boys and you can get a good idea of what is going on here.

She probably does like you, but not in the way you're thinking. You're a guy and she likes being around you, so she starts getting all these feelings she's probably never really had before and gets all confused about it all.

When your 'new-ness' starts to wear off she'll probably move her feelings onto something or someone else. I say this not to hurt your feelings, but it's best if you realize this is how things are probably going to work out before you invest too much of yourself into this.

You also need to ask herself 'how much does this girl really know about me?'. If the answer is not a lot really, chances are this is more a little crush and nothing more. Usually to develop deep feelings for someone requires getting to know them on a much more personal level.

For now though, I'd advise you to try and slow her down and understand where her feelings are coming from. Be honest with her. Tell her that you're nervous and unsure about things yourself, hopefully she'll understand and you guys can work things out.

After all, girls are a new thing for you just like guys are for her. I'm sure if you guys talked about how confusing your emotions were she would understand.

I would just be careful about putting too much of yourself into all this, as this sounds like a recipe for heartbreak if you're not careful.

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Did I mention that when you're in high school, she'll still be in elementary school?

(Assuming your schools are setup the same way mine were...)

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